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Fire truck dedicated to Willis ‘Pop’ Hapeman
May 9, 2009, 09:02
Filed under: Fire Fighters, History, roots of Willohroots, Reaction

 

Mt.  Zion's new truck dedicated May 9 in honor of my Dad.

Mt. Zion's new truck dedicated May 9 in honor of my Dad.

The company started in 1976, and this is the first brand new rig ever to go in the barn.  My dad rebuilt the engine on their first truck, a 1956 Ford,  they have come far.

I have been asked to say a few words in honor of my Dad.  The guys and girls at the company really thought a lot of him.  There is a plaque on the pump panel, in honor of Willis ‘Pop’ Hapeman.  Dad was blessed with 53 years in fire service.  I was really surprised when, at his funeral, the Pittston and West Pittston Fire Companies put the aerial ladders at full extension forming an arch for the hearse and parade to go under.  we call it putting up the sticks.  It is an honor seen most often when a firefighter dies on the job,  but I guess dad fought enough fires in both towns to deserve the honor. 

He was a leader as Fire Chief, then President, then Pop.  He offered marital and relationship counseling to people who had no one else to talk to.  People would confide the most private things to him.  He was a very special man.   I grew up in a small town where Dad wad the borough electrician.  He was responsible for the town fire alarm.  That meant I got to blow the siren a lot.  What a thrill for a young boy to make such a loud noise!   Dad had a key ring with keys to about half the houses in town, in case they needed electrical work he could get in to do it.  He was trusted, and with reason.  He was honest to a fault. 

It will be an honor and a privilege to speak on his behalf today.  There are some things I will not mention to the crowd that I would like to share with you, as shared burdens weigh much less.  

My dad never saw my family sing in church.  When the girls were young my wife would play keyboard, I would play guitar, and we would sing in various churches as a way to serve our God.  He never saw that.  I have been preacher for almost thirty years,  fill in, old age homes, Church of Christ, Baptist, Congregational,etc.  My dad never heard me preach.   I was a soloist in churches and school , college,and churches. My dad never heard me sing.  My dad did not believe as I do.  He often said, “When you are dead you’re dead!”  He wanted no part of church.

My readers can understand why,  when he died I went through a two year period of depression.  He had told me that if I became a preacher he would break my leg, and if I became a Baptist preacher he would break both my legs.  Threats like this from a big powerful man must not be ignored.  I was made Pastor the week he died.  I stood over his bed, looking at his legs, both broken from within by cancer, and just had to wonder. 

I loved my Dad.  We spent so much time together as business partners, hunters, and firemen.  My life was often in his hands, and he always pulled through. Once another company shut my hose line off while I was in a working structure fire on the nozzle, once.  After Dad straightened them out that would not be repeated.After the 72 flood electricity had me stuck to a pipe in a basement and he kicked me off,[ he said he enjoyed that], and we will not speak of the bar fights here.   As far as eternity, I have thread bare hope of a deathbed conversion.  All things are possible  with God,  and even if we are separated after time ceases I still owe Dad much.  He taught me a good trade, made me a Fire Fighter and Chief,  taught me to shoot straight with firearms and people.  There is no doubt he was a good and honorable man. 

I need to get  in fire company mode,  dry my eyes and look the part of a past Chief honoring a past Chief.  On a purely secular level it will be a great day,  I just am not sure I can function on a purely secular level these days.

Pray for my brother firefighters,  they are some of the best people I know.  Introduce them to the Savior with love,  Amazing Grace should be more to them than the name of the song they play at a fireman’s funeral.

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Very commendable. For You & yours.

Comment by Tom H

Thanks TomHie ! 400 horses under the hood!

Comment by willohroots

We are to honor our father and mother. Mission accomplished!!

I do not want to go into a long story, but want to give you some encouragement about your father. This is something that I struggled with for years…..a loved one who passed and “we” are left wondering. A very wonderful pastor helped me with this many years ago. We do not really know either way, but there are some things “we” do know. The Lord answers prayers! He also does not wish that “any” should perish. If “we” put those two together…I think “we” can have peace. When nothing else makes sense….we must stick to what we know…He is sovereign! And He works in ways that “we” can’t even imagine!

Comment by Ike

Thanks Ike, His ways are not our ways. It has taken a while, but my Father has brought healing about my dad.

Comment by willohroots

Will,
Which Mt. Zion is this? York-Cumberland-Monroe-Lebanon? I only ask because I’m from Lancaster County and some day I would love to attend your church and meet you.

Comment by Ike

Mt. Zion, Exeter township Luzerne County, between Scranton and Wilkes-Barre, and you would be most welcome.

Comment by willohroots

((willohroots))
May the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, guard your heart and your mind.

Comment by Shawn W

Will,

Thanks for this post. I’m sure it was not easy, but thank you for your honesty and openness.

I’m grateful that we’re connected. I’m grateful to know you as my brother-in-Christ.

Joe.

Comment by Joe

Thanks JOE, We are all in this life together, until He calls us or HE RETURNS. GOOD TO KNOW YOU!

Comment by willohroots

This is almost exactly how you explained it before your sermon. It’s a very nice story.

Comment by Michael Keating

The Lord really blessed you with a great Dad.

The Lord knows the hearts of men.

Don’t be too suprised if when you get to Heaven, your Dad is there.

He might even let you turn on the ‘alarm’ a time or two.

Thanks for sharing, Will.

Comment by theoldadam

God Bless you Steve, you are kind hearted, in fact you are an all around good guy, for a Lutheran, that is.:]
We all share a blessed hope that with our Loving God all things are Possible.

Comment by willoh




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